Special Lubes
Reducing Penis Sensitivity Reaching orgasm too quickly is an issue for many men - and so you will find some lubricants (also sprays and creams) that contain benzocaine or lidocaine. These are mild 'numbing' agents present in low concentrations.
If you've ever had an injection at the dentists then you've experienced the effect of benzocaine - but in much higher doses! In sprays and lubes the concentration is
usually about 3%, which is just enough to reduce sensations for a period.
Increasing Clitoral Sensitivity
Many women enjoy the ability to increase the sensitivity of their clitoris - which can
result in faster, longer and more intense orgasms. You can buy a variety of creams
and gels designed to achieve this. The active ingredients are usually menthol
and/or l-arginine (an amino acid).